Mature women who haven’t had a sexual experience yet often ask the question “Isn’t the absence of sexual intercourse dangerous for a woman’s life?” Why are they interested in it? Do these women suffer from a sexual desire, or does forbidden fruit seem tasty?
Whereas in our society sexual intercourse before marriage are privilege only for men. Actually, if an adult female/woman feels acute need in the sexual intimacy, isn’t it dangerous to her health not to satisfy this need and struggle against sexual arousal? In order to answer this question, first of all we should have a certain imagination about a woman’s sexual physiology. In response to the sexual stimuli healthy woman reacts by blood-filling in sex organs. Its main obvious sign is wetness of vagina. There is also inner subjective experience of sexual arousal, which is normally accompanied by the body’s answer. However, experience of sexual arousal doesn’t always lead to intimate relation. For it she needs to have a serious motivation to have a sexual intimacy. Sex will occur only after comparison of pros and cons.
And now let’s imagine that in response to the sexual stimuli the woman feels the inner subjective sexual arousal, however the ‘motivations’, which are for intimate relations, aren’t quite enough. What does the woman do? Of course, she tortures her body by resisting quite natural and healthy manifestation of a sexual arousal. Which are the results? If such ‘violence’ upon you occurs often and periodically repeats, the result is, as a rule, inhibition of the healthy nervous reflex of sexual arousal. Gradually sexual stimuli become indifferent, and the woman manages to keep full sexual coolness even in case of strong arousal. It may play a dramatic part in future, when you figure out, that you fail with your beloved husband. So what? What rational steps should we undertake not to conflict with a deep-seated tradition and meantime to keep healthy sexuality? The answer is simple – to be responsible for your own body. And it means that before undertaking this or that sexual activity you should get acquainted with your sexuality and accept your body; take into consideration sexual manifestations, weigh and realize all possible consequences of the sexual behavior.
