Sexual boredom is a subjective inner feeling, which all in all is perceived as boredom. Sometimes a person, getting tired of interpersonal relationships created by himself/herself and/or reality, tries to change his surroundings to ease boredom, in this case changing the partner, and looks for new opportunities for realization.
Sexual stereotypes, which are formed within microsocial framework, have both positive and negative sides. The positive effect of the stereotypes can stipulate some biorhythms, which have great physiological importance, as well as protect from modern sexual patterns and reproduction of sexual divergences, which are dangerous for the society. Meanwhile the negative stereotypes limit a person’s opportunities and adaptation mechanisms in other cultural conditions, becoming seemingly unacceptable for the given person.
For being adapted a person needs to be flexible and capable of constantly changing the formulated stereotypes, which give rise to boredom in them.
We, sexologists, explain the problems from physiological and social-psychological perspectives, which may possibly seem unreal at first sight. We view sexual boredom as a condition having a physiological basis. It is so, because over years the feeling of disgust for each other between sexual partners and the decline of sexual desire brought forward by sexual boredom are based on deeper interpersonal inner conflicts, physical problems, which seemingly find solution in our reality by the change of situation and conditions. In such cases couples manifest evasive behavior towards each other, in the best case scenario they try to change everything; for example the furniture of the room, the color of curtains and other exterior elements, to solve the problems brought forward by sexual boredom. While all this, of course, form the aesthetic part and are significant, they are not central in physical and spiritual relationships between a healthy man and a woman.
Thus, in order to avoid reliving the above mentioned sexual boredom, we need to get to know ourselves, accept ourselves with our positive and negative sides, try not to act in society with our imaginary “roles” and constantly look for conditions for realization and, which is the most important, perceive reality as it is.
